The "Return to Work" Survival Guide: Preparing for the End of Maternity Leave

 

The countdown to the end of maternity leave brings a mix of emotions. You might be excited to talk to adults again, but you are likely terrified of leaving your baby. This is normal.

The transition back to the office (or remote work) is a major life event. Don't just wing it on Monday morning.

1. Do a "Dry Run"

Do not let your first day back at work be the first time you attempt the new routine.

  • The Plan: Two days before you start, set your alarm for the work time. Get dressed, get the baby ready, and drive to the daycare (or do the handoff to the nanny).

  • Why: You will realize that getting a baby out the door takes 20 minutes longer than you thought. It is better to be late for the "Dry Run" than late for your boss.

2. The "Mid-Week" Start

If possible, ask your boss if you can return on a Wednesday or Thursday.

  • Why: A full 5-day week is exhausting immediately after months of being home. Starting mid-week gives you a "short week" to adjust, knowing the weekend is close.

3. Be Kind to Yourself

You will feel "brain fog." You might cry in the bathroom. You might forget your password.

  • The Mindset: You are not just an employee; you are a recovering postpartum parent. Lower your expectations for the first month. You will find your rhythm again.

    Frequently Asked Questions About Baby-Led Weaning (FAQ)

    1. When is the best time to start Baby-Led Weaning (BLW)? Most pediatricians recommend waiting until your baby is around 6 months old. The key signs to look for are: the ability to sit up with little to no support, losing the "tongue-thrust" reflex (pushing food out of their mouth), and showing a genuine interest in what you are eating. Always consult your doctor before starting solids.

    2. Is choking a bigger risk with BLW compared to purees? This is the #1 fear for parents! Studies suggest that there is no increased risk of choking with BLW compared to spoon-feeding, provided you follow safety guidelines. Avoid hard foods like raw apples, whole nuts, or round grapes. Soft, stick-shaped foods (like steamed carrots or avocado slices) allow the baby to control how much they swallow, which can actually teach them to chew better.

    3. Do I need special gear to start? You don't need much, but a few tools help. A high chair with a footrest is essential for stability (which helps with safe swallowing). As mentioned earlier, a "starter spoon" like the NumNum Gootensil (linked above) is great for babies who want to practice self-feeding with softer foods like yogurt or oatmeal. You will also want a bib with a "catch pocket" because BLW is messy!

    4. Can I mix purees and finger foods? Absolutely. You don't have to choose just one method. Many parents do "combo feeding." You might offer a loaded spoon of oatmeal (for iron) alongside a strip of omelet. The goal is to make mealtime a positive, sensory experience for your child, not to follow a strict rulebook.

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